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April 4, 2008      Volume 1 Issue 12


In This Issue

  • Learning to Enjoy Homemaking
  • Three Financial Mistakes Women Make
  • Just for Fun
  • Important Info.

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Greetings!

It's April and I'm already getting Spring Fever! My kids and I worked outside all last weekend getting our garden ready and raking up leaves. It's hard to believe they only have about 50 days left till summer vacation. They are counting down!

This month I wanted to bring your attention to really enjoying your role as homemaker/stay-at-home mom/etc. Don't get me wrong I wouldn't trade being an at-home mom for anything in the world, but there are days when I feel like an unappreciated maid. Picking up everyone's messes, endlessly washing dishes and laundry, and everyone begging for my attention can really wear you down! This article helped me gain a more positive attitude toward my daily duties - hope it helps you also!

I've also included an article I feel is really important! With tax time upon us - stay at home moms really need to consider their financial future! No one knows what tomorrow may bring, so it's best to be prepared!

Have a wonderful month!

   Kim





Learning to Enjoy Homemaking

In a nutshell I don't think you can ever truly enjoy all the details involved with homemaking. You might be proficient in one area or enjoy another as a hobby but those areas are usually the crafty (think sewing) parts or those involving food (cooking gourmet meals).

Bathroom cleaning? Laundry? Forget it! Although I truly do think I enjoy cleaning sometimes I really can't stand doing laundry and I know few who do.

There are few who enjoy all the aspects involved in homemaking and I've yet to find a person who does.

But instead of trying to make yourself enjoy the tedious chores needed for daily living what you can come to enjoy is doing these tasks for those you love. For your children, your spouse, those you know who are in need. It makes a world of difference to put on a selfless air when accomplishing homemaking tasks and think of those who are blessed by your efforts.

Next time you scrub that toilet think of how special your children are and how wonderful it is that you are able to provide them with a germ free bathroom.

As you do your laundry reminisce lovingly how people will know your family is loved because of how clean and well cared for their clothing is.

If you find yourself procrastinating on a particular area think of those members of your household who will appreciate and benefit from you doing that unlovable chore.

Now in case this thinking loving thoughts method isn't working for you your situation may be in need of some revamping.

You may need to discover new and faster ways to accomplish the basic homemaking tasks. Ways to keep you out of the kitchen such as freezer cooking and meal planning. Putting on your favorite song as you clean the bathroom so the time seems to fly by. Doing at least one load of laundry a day so that you are not buried under a mountain of dirty clothes.

It's all in how you look at it.


ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

O. Quinn. For more on organizing your home and life visit Homemaking Organized. And for vintage homemaking tidbits visit Vintage Homemaking.

Article Source: Lady Pens


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Three Financial Mistakes Women Make

90% of women feel insecure about managing their money. Here are the top three mistakes women make with their finances:

1. You rely on your husband to manage your finances.

Women have come a long way, but we still lean too much on men to manage our finances. We simply have not been socially encouraged, until recent years, to be assertive about finances. Banks are becoming increasingly aware of the female sector, and many offer educational courses just for women. The courses teach you everything from how to save, to how to invest, to understanding complex banking processes like the application processing system, and the business process management tool. Financial education is not as daunting as it first appears. Start slow, with a beginner's book or course, and work your way up.

2. You save for your child's college fund before you save for your retirement fund.

There are plenty of loans and scholarships available for college, but there are none available for retirement. There are several reasons why your child is better off if you save nothing for their college. That's right, nothing.

First of all, college is no longer necessary for a successful career. Colleges in the states have become big businesses that do not actually prepare kids for most current careers. Bill Gates never went to college, most millionaires and successful entrepreneurs never went to college. You don't need a college degree to become a web programmer, designer, photographer, or business owner. Teach your child to be smart about deciding whether college is right for them, or not. Do they want to attend college because that's what all their friends are doing, and they want that quintessential college dorm experience? Do they really want to spend $100,000 dollars for that dorm experience? Or do they actually need a degree, like with teaching, in order to fulfill their job dreams?

Most parents save for their child's college, so why shouldn't you? Well, because unfortunately most parents are falling for the marketing scam put out by financial institutions. The marketing scam is this: Make parents feel guilty and responsible to save for their kids, and get them to fork over $50-100,000 to the bank. Of course, banks don't tell you that kids get more financial aid for college if their parents haven't saved a penny. They don't tell you of the thousands of untapped scholarships.

Kids who know they have to fund their own college, instead of relying on mom and pop, work harder at their grades and show more discipline than kids who do not. The danger of supplying your kid with the funds is that they won't appreciate their education as much. They are more likely to drink the night away, unconcerned with how they'll pay for that $5,000 course in basket making. Put your retirement first and give your child the gift of real-world discipline: They can raise college funds on their own.

3. You don't ask for a raise.

Women are far less likely than men to ask for a raise. This is one of the main reasons that women earn less than men, in the same work position. Women typically work harder and ask for less, because we are still socialized to be "good girls." The rule of thumb is to ask for a raise about every six months in a job. Remember, if you don't ask for a raise, chances are you won't get one.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Amy Brevard is a Freelance Writer working for Innuity. For more information about an application processing system or a business process management tool go to ZootWeb.


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Just For Fun

www.DIYNetwork.com - (The television network) This craft came from the show "Scrapbooking" and the project is by Ginger Rohlfs. The link shows you how to make a mini-album/book from paper lunch bags. My kids and I made ours into an ABC book for my 3 yr old. Then we put a letter on each page and a picture of something that starts with the letter in the pocket. Inexpensive and fun project. For step by step directions and pictures click Here.



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